Merry Christmas!

Merry Christmas!

It’s been a tradition here that we make John’s famous brandywine.  It’s a wonderful addition to every gathering we’ve ever had.  Usually it takes a month to make, but seriously, you could make it now and it’ll be quite wonderful for Christmas Eve.  Then, as time goes on, it’ll be great for New Years and every occasion thereafter.  Give it a try.  Merry Christmas!

Here’s the recipe. Yes, I did the art.

Customer Service. Here’s a thought…

With it being the Christmas season (not my favorite, but I can decorate it til you wet your pants), I was reminded by something.  Not something most of you think about.  But if you’ve been on the bad end of it, you’ve thought about it.  But what I want to say is, do you (and your employees) pay REAL attention to how you treat your customers and said employees?  Sure they pay you for your services and products, but how do you treat them?  Do you make them sit on the phone, waiting for 20-30 minutes and figure that’s what they should expect because of “high call volume”?  Come on, if that’s really the case, then you need to have more folks who actually answer the phone.  Now on that obverse, those of you who waited to talk to such person, need to mind your manners also.  Don’t rip into them!  What ever the problem, they are NOT the ones who caused it and ARE the ones who are employed to help you solve that problem.  Help them help you.  If you get that one that’s not there but for the money, if they won’t try to help and stick just “to the script”, stop them and politely demand their supervisor.  Most likely they’ll get out of their iPod and try to help after all just to avoid the problem of having to have the supervisor come and fix what they didn’t bother with.  Next, in-store sales people.  I know they’re seasonal and you think they are the slime of the sales chain, but they are people none-the-less.  Both employers and customers need to remember to treat them with respect.  And they should treat everyone with respect also.  Granted, you’ve been having soccer moms with screaming children (come on, grow up and be a parent) and grumpy, rushed and generally obnoxious patrons, but as hard as it can be, you really should do your best to try to be at least a tiny bit pleasant.  Customers!  You’re not off the hook!  You are NOT the only one in the world.  Don’t harrass the cashier.  I have to admit (and this is really bad), but in years past I would get myself all dressed up in Dicken’s-ish clothing to do my Christmas shopping complete with holly in my top hat (Yup, I went through a weird period).  I always started out with the best feelings and intentions.  But after an hour or two of being shoved by other shoppers and being distained by store clerks, my mood heads south, I end up trying for justice.  Unfortunately, I turned into “Bad Shopper”.  I stopped buying and my goal became that I must give back what I got.  My big joy was to see how many store clerks I could make cry.  Actually and unfortuanately, I was pretty good at it.  Not good for anyone.  But in my own defense, I really was pushed to it.  Shoppers!  Listen up!  We’re all out there on our various missions for holiday happiness.  What effort or harm can it be to smile to one another and maybe (God forbid) open a door or reach for something for someone or tell them it’s over there since you were just there and they may or may not like it afterall.  Or let them go first at the register.  If they have the courtesy, they won’t be long and what did it hurt to give a couple minutes?  Have some manners.  They’re not there as an inconvenience.  They’re a part of getting along with your other human being.  If the kid isn’t needing the stroller, leave it in the car.  Also, you are not the only person in the world.  The rest of us are not here as an inconvenience to you or as servants.  You are not entitled as much as you think you are.  OK, enough commentary about shoppers and sales clerks.  Employers and Company Owners.  Not just at Christmas, how much do you thank your clients and employees for their business and what they do?  Parties and Special Sales don’t count!  Have you walked by or emailed or called someone to find out how their life is?  Given them a break for a minor lateness.  Said “Thank You” or “Hope all is going well”?  You live with and around these people.  Life cannot just be always on your terms.  If you can allow the minor adjustment to your work environment from time to time and give out the occasional “Hey, that’s nice” or “Great job” you can find yourself getting way more back than you thought you gave.  Nice doesn’t hurt (or it least shouldn’t).  The more you give in courtesy and niceness, the massively more you get back in everything.

What Color Should I Paint my Room?

Recently, I was asked the ongoing question, “What color should I paint my room?” Normally, this shouldn’t be a bad question. But, I’ve discovered, many people mave a real problem picking interior colors. They end up with the proviberial “Beige”. Good in some cases, but come on show some spunk. What colors do you REALLY like? Some of this comes from outside influences and some from ethic upbringing. Here in Florida beige is king. If you’re really daring, maybe two tones of beige. With white trim, of course. This may be fine for builders and those afraid of color, but may folks seem to think that they have to follow that rule. Don’t get me wrong, beige is fine for some things, but many people would like to push out of that and try new colors. Great! They go the the paint store and find a color they like. Buy a gallon or two of said color. Paint a wall and hate the color. First problem: NEVER pick the color at the store! Pick several shades and tints around the color you like and take the samples home. Paint stores probably hate me but, I’ll walk out with dozens of chips similar to the color I think I want. I then take them home and decide from there. Big thing is that color changes according to the room light. It might have been great in the store, but once home it might not be what you thought. I suggest, take the chips into the room to be painted. Go through all of them and find the ones that still appeal to you. I like to fold the chip to color I like and tape it to the wall. This way tou see it vertically. Colors change depending on whether you look at them vertically (on the wall) or horizontally (looking at them on the counter). Do this with ALL the colors you still seem to like. Walk away for a while (15 minutes is good). Go back and see what you still like. Pull down the ones that don’t quite work anymore. Something I was told MANY years ago was that whatever color you like for a wall, take and grey them a bit. Remember, your looking at a tiny spot of the color. Once you paint the wall that really nice red, you’ll end up feeling like your in a stop sign. Really stong colors are best for accents. And so if you dim them down (usually by lightening them and maybe not using them for a whole room) you’ll find that they look much better. For the wall, really dim them. Colors on walls get stronger once multiplied over a larger surface. My friend wanted her bathroom to be orange. Not my most favorite color, but she really likes orange. Instead of saying go with a lighter color like peach, I suggested a more terracotta type of color. This after she had already painted the room primary orange. We came up with a slightly darker, washed out terracotta that she thought she was going to hate from the small sample. Once on the wall, it multiplied to a rich, warm orangeish tone that she really liked afterall.
Something else.  Don’t be afraid to use a darkish color in a small room. I depends on the lighting. A bathroom with bright light and white walls is too bright. Try a deeper color, I’ve done beige (but a more coffee color), red (but washed down to a rich terracotta/pink) and a denim blue. None of which had white trim.
If your going with color, use color on the trim. Example, the beige bathroom has slightly lighter beige trim (the cabinets were off-white). Safe, yes. The red bath has natural oak trim and cream/terracotta/pale moss green accents. With the remaining trim a warm grey and an off-white tile floor. The denim bath is more daring when first thought about. It has denim blue walls, off-white tile and floor, but the ceiling is metallic silver as is the trim. Silver can be used as a neutral because it picks up the tone of the colors around it. The door was painted a very deep, rich royal purpleish blue. Very strong, but it’s just the door.
The ethnic choice of colors is a problem for many. Don’t use the main, primary, color. Ethnic yellow (French’s mustard yellow) or other strong yellows are popular, but painfull to live with. Dim or wash it out. The color most likely will be very overwhelming if you don’t back off from it a bit. Not to say, don’t use those colors. They make you happy. Just back off a bit on the strength and use them as accent walls or use an accent wall to relieve the strength from the primary color. Example: a soft blue room, jazzed up with a rich terracotta accent wall.
Don’t just figure white is the only color for trim. There are many others choices. In fact, if you do go with a deep color for the walls, don’t use white trim. It stands out too much and with give you a caged in feeling.
That’s all I have to say at the moment. Ask me your questions. I’m more than happy to help.